All in all you’re just another brick in the wall …
I have pretty silent over the course of the past few days although I am sure the links I share and the posts I like on social media are indication of my beliefs. Time to break my silence …
The media and political worlds have been caught up in a whirlwind of talk about who to keep in … who to keep out … build a wall … those on the “right side” – in … those on the “wrong side” – out …
Since the election, there has been a constant battle on this topic. While we wait for rational thought and rational minds to prevail through various check and balances, I can’t help to think about my status of being a grandchild of immigrants — on both sides of my family. My dad’s family immigrated from what was then Czechoslovakia and my mom’s maternal lineage came from Norway. If oral tradition holds true, my dad’s family is here because someone stole a cow from the Czar to feed his family and sought refuge in the United States to escape imprisonment or death. A few years later, his wife came with the rest of his children and was left off of the train in a town called “Wilmington” – several miles away from her actual destination to be reunited with her husband in “South Wilmington”. With children in tow, she went up and down the streets of “Wilmington”, calling out her husband’s name, using the only language that would be recognizable in this new, foreign place. Miraculously, someone recognized the name and took her and her children to “South Wilmington” and the rest is history! From Kosice, Czechoslovakia (now Slovakia) to South Wilmington, IL – in many ways, refugees of their time. As the story has been told over and over, romanticized, it seems a bit like the story of Robin Hood … take from the rich, give to the poor … however, many would see it as a thief who made his escape in the thick of the night to escape persecution.
I don’t know the story as to how my maternal grandmother and her sisters and parents ended up in the United States; however, I do know that they came from Stavanger, Norway. She had passed away before I was born so I never had the chance to hear the story. However, I am certain that the story involved new beginnings and new opportunities in America.
I was always taught to be proud of our family roots. I remember, being the youngest grandchild (and I am sure slightly spoiled), learning and speaking Slovak with my Grandma. We would watch Sesame Street together and I told her that I would learn Spanish from that TV show (well at least how to count to ten!) and we would have another language to speak. The languages, the accents of relatives and neighbors … was always something to cherish … never admonish.
I heard the stories … relished the foods and traditions … lefsa, kringla, haluski, roshky, … even wearing a babushka to keep the wind out of my ears and protect my head! And, I know others had similar stories to tell … the language, culture, and traditions may have been different, but the sentiment and thought that America offered a place for a new beginning … hope … refuge … was the common theme.
Now … fast forward some thirty to forty years … how have we ended up in such a place? So quick to judge? So quick to close off our borders and the same opportunity for refuge, hope, and a new beginning that those before us were allowed?
My past experience and the stories I heard over and over again has made me personally and professionally an advocate for immigrants and rights. As an educator – in and out of the classroom – I have known families both here legally and illegally … and many times … the actual status was unknown … as that is not what is important. I have seen in the faces of the parents of students I have served over the years, the faces of my parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, etc. People who work hard, love even harder, and only what something better for their children and their children’s children.
How did we as a nation lose sight of this … so quickly … so readily? How did we just become another brick in the wall … and not stand up for those who do not yet have a voice, or the language to speak up, and be heard?
As it states on the script in the Statue of Liberty’s hands: Give me your tired, your poor, Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free, The wretched refuse of your teeming shore. Send these, the homeless, tempest-tost to me, I lift my lamp beside the golden door!